In a world where communication is paramount, the ability to speak clearly and thoughtfully has never been more essential. The old adage "think before you speak" holds true, but there's another crucial aspect to effective communication: the speed at which you speak and the control you exert over your words. Articulation isn't about speed; it's about control. So, ....... slow .......down......
I'm sure you will have experienced that individual who talks a mile a minute, as if their thoughts are in a race with their vocal cords. The result? A garbled stream of words that leaves listeners bewildered and struggling to keep up. When we speak too quickly, our brain can't keep pace with our mouth, leading to a litany of issues, including rambling, stuttering, and an overuse of filler words like "um," "like," and "you know." This lack of control can have a profound impact on the way others perceive us and, more importantly, on the quality of our own thinking.
Think of clear speaking as akin to skiing down piste. If you hurtle downhill without control, you're almost certain to lose balance and end up tumbling. The same principle applies to communication. Speaking too quickly can lead to a verbal avalanche of ideas, leaving you and your listeners struggling to maintain equilibrium.
While it might not seem entirely fair, the reality is that people, including peers, bosses, clients, and friends, often judge us by the way we express ourselves. The process of speaking is, in many ways, a performance. It's not just about conveying information; it's about connecting with your audience, making a lasting impression, and persuading them to see things from your perspective. Your speaking style can greatly influence how you are perceived, whether you're speaking in the Boardroom, on a stage, or even in casual conversations.
The best speakers throughout history, from former Barack Obama, Sir Winston Churchill, to Nelson Mandela each have something in common: a controlled pace. These individuals understood the value of slowing down. Speaking deliberately and at a measured pace allows your brain the advantage it needs to process your thoughts clearly and present them eloquently. It's this kind of thoughtful and measured communication that captivates audiences, making it more likely that your message will be well-received and remembered.
Slowing down also provides several benefits for clear thinking. Here are a few:
Improved Clarity: Speaking slowly gives your brain the time it needs to organize and articulate your thoughts. This results in a more coherent and logical presentation of your ideas, making it easier for others to understand and engage with your message.
Reduced Errors: Rushed speech is more prone to mistakes, mispronunciations, and grammatical errors. Slowing down allows you to speak more accurately, enhancing your credibility and professionalism.
Enhanced Confidence: When you speak slowly and with control, you exude confidence. Your calm and collected demeanor can inspire trust and respect from your audience, whether you're giving a presentation or participating in a critical conversation.
Active Listening: Slowing down not only benefits your speaking but also encourages active listening. When you take your time, it allows others to process and respond to your words effectively, fostering a more meaningful exchange of ideas.
Reducing Accents: We are all proud of where we come from, as a Welshman, I certainly am, however, accents can be distracting, slowing down your speech reduces this.
Clear speaking and clear thinking are intimately connected, with the speed and control of your speech playing a pivotal role in the process. Remember that articulation isn't about speed; it's about control. By slowing down and speaking thoughtfully, you can harness the power of effective communication, leaving a lasting impression and ensuring that your thoughts are expressed with precision and impact.
Whether you are in a professional setting or simply engaging in everyday conversations, the ability to articulate your ideas with control can be a powerful asset that sets you apart. So, embrace the wisdom of slowing down and let your words become a powerful tool for clear thinking and effective communication.
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Keith Power | Managing Partner | Motivus Coaching LLP
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